Wednesday, December 10, 2008

Getting Your Ex Back - 3 Fail Safe Tricks That Work!

Is it possible to win someone back after a breakup?

What should I do next? Is it hopeless or do I still have a chance?

Don't get discouraged by those questions that are probably going through your mind. Breakups are tough and you are probably experiencing a lot of heart pain and confusion, I know, but if you can avoid common mistakes and follow the right plan, you will increase the chances of getting your ex back into your arms.

People get back together after even the most troubled situations, so it's possible and it can be done.

Key to success is to get your ex to desire you back and want to come back without force. In love, begging and pushing will not work, on the contrary, it will push the other person even further away.

1) Your first important move is to NOT act out of desperation when you deal with your ex. Think about it for a moment... no amount of begging, reasoning, or clinging will make your ex come back in your arms.

At best they will just feel sorry for you, which will actually put them off and only confirm their decision to break up with you. That's human psychology...

2) Have you heard the following psychological secret "People want what they can't have..."?

It's true, people desire more what is not easily and freely available and you have to deal with your breakup the same way. If you bombard your ex with attention and call them every 10 minutes, they will not feel any desire for you. On the other hand, if you act calm with self-respect and leave your ex some space, they will begin to miss you and you will become more desirable. This is what you want to achieve.

It's recommended that you don't contact your ex for several days, even up to 2-3 weeks. If you manage this, it's very likely that your ex will actually contact you first, which will put you in a favorable position.

3) Don't start drinking or asking drugs to sort you out. You will likely end up worse than before. I honestly cannot remember any situation where drinking bottles of wine has made anyone's ex come back. At best your ex might start feeling sorry for you, but not in a good way!

Pick yourself up, leave the house occasionally and get together with some good friends who understand you and you will become more attractive (also to your ex!). Word will go around and they might soon wonder if they didn't make a mistake to leave you.

On your part, the next important step is to understanding why your breakup happened (not necessarily what your ex told you) and how to act from there. The website in the next paragraph holds plenty of tips and even couple of videos that show you exactly what you must never do, what you should do and why, to get your ex back fast.

Are you making these mistakes with your ex? Watch these videos on getting your ex back that will show you exactly what you must NEVER do, what to do instead and how to fix mistakes you may have made.

Breakup tips: http://www.getyourexloverback.com/help/just_breakup.php

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