Perhaps you have already broken up with your ex boyfriend or girlfriend but you still care for him or her. You are really eager to attract your ex back to your side but you do not know what to do. Maybe you have tried many methods but so far, none of them work, so what are you going to do.
Well, the secret behind winning your ex back is not to use methods that you think will work. In fact, most of the time, when you do something that seems logical, it is usually a mistake that you are not aware of.
Let us look at an example for clearer illustration.
Say a typical scenario. Peter tried to contact Jane. So he called Jane. Unfortunately, Jane has decided to avoid Peter. So, when Jane knows Peter is calling, Jane will not pick up the phone.
So, what happen next, When Peter couldn't reach Jane, he will start to feel a bit panic. So what is the logical thing to do? Well, the logical thing to do is obviously to call Jane again and again until she decided to pick up the phone.
However, without realizing it, Peter has already made a very common mistake. Yes, eventually, Jane might decide to pick up the phone. But this is not going to be beneficial to Peter.
The act of calling your ex over and over again only shows one thing. And that is, you are acting desperately. Desperation will only push your ex further away. The idea here is to try using counter intuitive method instead.
For example, if your ex has decided to break up with you, you may be tempted to argue with your ex over the break up. However, while arguing seems to be the logical thing to do, it is not going to help you in your situation. You will be much better off by doing the counter intuitive stuff. That is, you will want to agree with the break up instead.
Why is this method effective? Well, this has got something to do human psychology. The fact is, people want something that they do not have. If you try to push something towards them, they will simply try to run away from it.
So, if you agree with the break up and be cool about it, it might make them regret their decision. So it now makes you more attractive because your ex never expected you to agree with the break up so easily. This will really set the stage for you to win your ex back in the future.
How To Get Your Ex Back
Watch a 9 minute video that show exactly how you can agree with your break up, what common mistakes to avoid and what you can do if it is already too late and you have already made those mistakes.
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1 comment:
urgent..............i want my ex lover back he is leaving
me not calling or texting, he is not even responding to me
anymore. i don't know what to do i am completely outta my
mind i am just crying all day long>>>>>>>>>>if i don't get
him/her back i will end my life.........PLESAE save your
strenght you don't have to commit suicide to get your ex
it's will not even bring him but rather makes you a big
fool...........now you have mother of the world sunlight
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divorced 2yrs and 4months ago just last week i contacted sunlight
because everyday i dream of him as i love so him much last
week ago i contacted sunlight 3days of it my husband came back
after the casting of the charms has been and we settled again
right now we are living together>>>>>>>>>>>pls worry not your
self because she is her to help you in what so ever that you need.
thanks to you mother of the world glory be unto your name woman
of powers'''''''''''i love you
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